How to Handle a Professional Bully

This is for all the young professionals in the house.

I remember the first time I was screamed at by a professional authority figure. A board member, in fact.

Years have passed, and I still draw on the experience when working with young professionals in tricky spots.

The tirade was over the placement of a bookshelf. Clearly not about me. It was my first day on the job, and the contested bookshelf relocation had been authorized by my boss, the executive director.

The board member and I hadn’t even been introduced yet.

Already, reporting relationships and professional decorum meant nothing. And already, this board member was literally cursing her way into my life.

So began three years of a mostly joyous directorship, colored by acute bouts of misery, as this same board member bulldozed everyone in sight.

It was also where I learned one of my most valuable lessons as a young professional, foremost being how to diffuse a bad situation before it escalates.

It’s surprisingly simple.  Continue reading

About Jared’s Virtual Assistant

Kandace Friesen, owner of Friesen Virtual Assistants in Redding, California, provides executive assistance, technical, and social media strategy and implementation services to independent professionals like me.

Kandace’s service adapts to my scalable / ad hoc needs. This means that I work closely with clients on the substantive parts of their projects, while Kandace handles many of the associated administrative tasks like invoicing, document delivery, and scheduling.

Clients hear from Kandace from time to time, but always have a direct line to me via email and telephone.

Reach Kandace during business hours at 530-638-3891 or kfriesen@friesenvirtualassistants.com.

Jared Redick
Executive Résumé Writer
415-397-6640
jredick@theresumestudio.com

Q&A: What About Relocating During a Job Search?

I used to do Q&As with newsletter subscribers. In 2006, a job seeker wrote in about relocation biases.

Dear Jared:

I’m open to relocation and have sent résumés to other cities. So far no one has expressed interest. I feel like they only want local candidates. — Anita, Tampa, FL.

Dear Anita:

They probably do. Many companies draw from local candidate pools first. It’s less costly, the candidates are familiar with the territory, and they’re easier to meet face-to-face.

As an executive search consultant who conducted national searches, I was surprised by how frequently companies got “geographically stuck.” We were often restricted in the talent we could find until we were able to convince the client to look at the bigger picture.

As a candidate, it’s your job to speak up, subtly. You can’t dictate what a hiring entity wants, but you can remove a few barriers upfront to improve the odds.

Here are a few techniques:

  • Place “Willing to Relocate,” “Open to Relocation,” or “Relocating to [City Name]” under your résumé address.
  • Have a friend of family member in your intended city? Ask permission to list their address next to your current address.
  • Start the second paragraph of your cover letter with a succinct statement about your relocation plans and your willingness to be readily available to interview and move at your own cost.

You never know when relocation will enter your job search, or how. But being prepared with the right tools can make a difference.

Until next time!

Jared Redick
Visit: The Resume Studio.com
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Connect: LinkedIn.com/in/jaredredick
Call: 415-397-6640

Keep Your Résumé Fresh

KeepYourResumeFreshI sent this reminder to my newsletter subscribers in March 2006. Today seems like a good day to revisit it.

A fatal mistake we fallible humans make too often is being unprepared when opportunity strikes. Having an up-to-date résumé ready to rock is no exception.

Suddenly the clock strikes and we find ourselves scrambling to become instant résumé writers at the worst time: when we’re without a job, or close to it.

All sorts of mayhem pours into documents written in haste, exposing a vulnerable, last minute “I hope they can’t tell I crammed for the test” flavored desperation.

Is it possible to take our microwave-ready, just-add-water approach to lives to the task of résumé writing?  Continue reading

How to Hide a Contact’s Activity on Your LinkedIn Newsfeed

Did you know you can hide a contact’s activity on your LinkedIn newsfeed?

I didn’t either, until I had the privilege of meeting with some LinkedIn folks a few weeks ago.

Sure, you want to stay connected with your contacts, right? But some connections like to tweet a lot.

With those tweets linked to their LinkedIn newsfeeds, it can all become too much.

For those who tweet irregularly, no problem, right. A hashtag here and there.

For prolific tweeters, however; whether they realize it or not, they take up a lot of my LinkedIn newsfeed reading time. And it’s often about things I’m not so interested in. (I love the Oscars, but imagine a contact “live tweeting” the Oscars, and pushing those tweets onto your LinkedIn feed. Notsomuch.)

The problem is, you still want to stay connected.

The solution? THE HIDE BUTTON.

Here’s how:  Continue reading